Bewildered by the fact that so many guys are lacking in basic social skills, I posed this question to a friend who happens to be of the male persuasion. He put it all in perspective, quite plainly…
“Some guys really are that clueless.“
Ohhhhh, I get it now! Like for example what would possess a guy to ask upon the first im “Are you a sexual person,” and when asked to clarify, (because no one is that stupid) he said “Do you like to have sex a lot, because I need someone who likes to have sex a lot,” is that he just really is that clueless. Well…that sucks…gosh, maybe someone should tell him.
In any case, I feel that I have noticed a pattern in some of the guys that were fortunate enough to have been graced by my presence, however briefly.
Guys learn how to deal with rejection. In case you missed it the first time, GUYS LEARN HOW TO DEAL WITH R-E-J-E-C-T-I-O-N!
First of all, think about it…I’m really nothing to get your panties in a twist over. You are not personally invested in me because you don’t know me. Until we meet, I am a picture that can type, a fembot if you will.
Let me give you a preview of my current events:
I deleted the first part because I never thought I would hear from this person again so I am paraphrasing.
via Text
It’s not cool that you’re late even to a stranger. “But I’m not thinking about this again, don’t get me wrong. I am chiller than that.“
Next:
“I’m deleting your number now, but I realize what happened. You saw me and made a flash decision. Harsh. Whatever woman.”
And the following day:
“I found your number and wanted to message you a Fuck You before I throw it out. Hope this wakes you!”
I actually want to thank this person. Thank you for confirming for me that I made the right decision about you.
Lesson: It’s worse when your antics become my entertainment. Don’t be that guy.
